Orthodox non-dualistic knowledge and theories are meant for the mass, who hold the religion and individualized God as truth.

As one goes deeper in the subject one becomes aware of the fact that the religion, scriptures and concept of God is nothing to do with ultimate truth or Brahman.  Orthodox non-dualistic knowledge and theories are  meant for the mass, who hold the religion and individualized God as truth and belief in birth,life,death rebirth and the world where as the Sage Sri, Sankara declared:- world is myth and Brahman alone is real.   

Religion is based on the false self (ego or waking entity) within the false experience (waking). Whatever based on the false self and false experience is not the truth. The ultimate truth is based on the formless soul, which is present in the form of consciousness is the innermost self. On the standpoint of the formless soul, the innermost self, the three states are nonexistent as reality.

If one does not find reflection of his self when he is standing in front of the mirror but he finds his body and the background world in the mirror.  The one which is conscious of the body and the experience of the world is not the body but the consciousness, which is the inner most self.

The relationship and love, hate happiness and misery of the practical life within the practical world are not connected to the soul [formless consciousness] which is his true self. The true self is beyond form, time and space and beyond birth, life, death and world. 

Thus rest in consciousness by recognizing it as our inner most self, which is god.  And realize the practical life within the practical world is mere mirage created out of consciousness. Consciousness is ultimate truth and ultimate truth is God.

Getting rid of the physical shackle is necessary to overcome the burden and bondage of the illusory samsara. Love and relationship seems reality in practical life within the practical world but they are mere illusion from ultimate standpoint.   Thus the game of life is mere passing show.